Friday, March 05, 2010

Helping Prepare Your Kids for A Move

Moving is one of life't many changes, and especially if it's accompanied by other changes such as divorce, can be difficult for kids. To help kids deal with the transition, keep them informed at each stage and try to involve them as much as is feasible.


1.As soon as you think you might be moving, start floating the idea to your kids. If you see a nice house or apartment, ask "would you like to live somewhere like this someday?" The more time you give them to get used to the idea, the better.

2.If possible, involve them in the process of looking for a new place to live.. This will make the whole process of a move exciting for them and may make them feel more involved in a decision that's beyond their control.

3. When you have definate plans for a move, let them know. Mark it on a calendar. Count the days with the kids and be enthusiastic and excited.

4. Take each child, if you are able, to get some new things for their room. This could be as simple as an arts and crafts project to make something for the new place. A foam sign with their name for their door, or a picture of their favorite character to hang on the wall. COnsider letting them pick a wall color for their new room.
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